/u/azndude369 on I think I was kicked off the bridal party for refusing to...
"they can dictate what they wear and ask them to get their hair and make up done professionally but have no right to ask someone to change their appearance including wearing wigs and coveribg...
View Article/u/baddad2016 on I think I was kicked off the bridal party for refusing to...
Karen we get that you want nice pics for the wedding but you don’t have to ruin your friendship to do it. Next time don’t pick bridesmaids that might inconvenience you by having cancer. Or maybe have...
View Article/u/headachery on I think I was kicked off the bridal party for refusing to...
My guess - Karen's fiance. They doth protest too much.
View Article/u/JaedenV2007 on I think I was kicked off the bridal party for refusing to...
She’s not dictating it, she merely does not want to wear a wig, and the bride is refusing to let her in because of it. Doesn’t really seem that reasonable, does it?
View Article/u/somedudetoyou on I think I was kicked off the bridal party for refusing to...
Just text/call back acting super upset and say you'll happily wear a wig hell you'll even let her pick it out, if only she'll let you be a bridesmaid again. And when she's all like "Of course I will!",...
View Article/u/its-mousie on I think I was kicked off the bridal party for refusing to...
Have you paid for the dress/anything for the wedding? I would be petty and still go and rock your short hair! Show her what a mistake she made taking you out of the bridal party for something so...
View Article/u/Seanay-B on I think I was kicked off the bridal party for refusing to wear...
Good people dont do what Karen does.
View Article/u/dizzybarbarian on I think I was kicked off the bridal party for refusing...
Welp, you've my vote for Sanit of the Year. How you managed to hold your tongue, act with grace, and muster on in the face of this unbelievable situation is beyond me! It speaks so so so highly of your...
View Article/u/Triccie3 on I think I was kicked off the bridal party for refusing to wear...
Congrats on your remission, I’m glad you’re one of the lucky ones. As for the bride and the wedding, if they can’t accept and understand what you’ve been through (sad that compassion is lacking in a...
View Article/u/Chlaus on I think I was kicked off the bridal party for refusing to wear a...
wooooooooooooooow what a roller coaster wtf ??? yeet that bitch
View Article/u/jaxnkeater23 on I think I was kicked off the bridal party for refusing to...
If you were in my bridal party, you would not wear a wig. Ohhh noohohooo. That’s not good enough for the warrior you are. My bridal party would all shave their heads to support you 100%. Anyone who...
View Article/u/ManaSputachu on I think I was kicked off the bridal party for refusing to...
You're definitely not overthinking this, OP. As others said, skip the wedding and cut her from your life. You deserve way better than this!I wish you all the best. <3
View Article/u/Budgiejen on I think I was kicked off the bridal party for refusing to...
Congrats, you got vultures by god.dailydot.com. They swooped in and scooped up your story instead of engaging in real journalism.
View Article/u/tiggrn on I think I was kicked off the bridal party for refusing to wear a...
I’m so sorry. I requested my bridesmaids wear a certain color, but they all got to pick their dresses. I bought them the shoes and jewelry as a thank you. They all got to paint their nails, do their...
View Article/u/Octosphere on I think I was kicked off the bridal party for refusing to...
First of all, I'm late so I'm sorry. I wish you the best recovery ever, seriously, my best friend got diagnosed two years ago so i can only fathom what that must be like, but you're on the road to...
View Article/u/just4thesea on I think I was kicked off the bridal party for refusing to...
I'm so horrified by this and I'm so sorry you have to go through this. When I got married I invited just a few people to be in my wedding party. They could wear whatever they wanted, with the shoes of...
View Article/u/Insurgentvoter- on I think I was kicked off the bridal party for refusing...
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View Article/u/AmyWaltersSWNS on I think I was kicked off the bridal party for refusing...
Hi there, my name is Amy Walters and I am a journalist at SWNS, a press agency which works with all of the national newspapers and magazines in the UK, we would love to share your story. If you could...
View Article/u/TakohamoOlsen2 on I think I was kicked off the bridal party for refusing...
And a nurse as well!!!
View Article/u/Pookle123 on I think I was kicked off the bridal party for refusing to...
The sun has taken this story and made a news article about it
View Article/u/TheDarkjester88 on I think I was kicked off the bridal party for refusing...
If she wont answer your calls i would say write down how you feel and what thoughts have come from this then send it to her.If she doesnt answer then i would say dont go because she wont take the time...
View Article/u/notably_less_cancery on I think I was kicked off the bridal party for...
I just finished chemo and you know what? You're a BEAST. Being comfortable being bald isn't easy for most women. I tried a wig and HATED IT (husband and I had a laugh about how weird it looked) and I...
View Article/u/3Greens on I think I was kicked off the bridal party for refusing to wear...
I’m so sorry your ‘alleged’ friend kicked you off the wedding party for refusing to wear a wig during wedding. I was diagnosed with cancer 8 months before my daughters wedding & I was still going...
View Article/u/Beemzebub on I think I was kicked off the bridal party for refusing to...
This will get buried but I’d have you front and centre in all my wedding pics to celebrate you, as well as the marriage. Stay strong
View Article/u/karikitten on I think I was kicked off the bridal party for refusing to...
So sorry to hear this. Kick the bitch to the curb, and keep on fighting for you!
View Article/u/ittakesaredditor on I think I was kicked off the bridal party for refusing...
What is it with you and thinking that only nurses work in high stress roles and that only they have to work overtime and that only they have to plan a wedding on top of work? Plenty of women work in...
View Article/u/SpaceGeekCosmos on I think I was kicked off the bridal party for refusing...
Just let this go. Don’t go to the wedding and get on with life without her. She will have her pictures and her new family. Go your separate ways and be well.
View Article/u/3catsinahumansuit on I think I was kicked off the bridal party for...
Read the update, and bullshit that it's not about the wig.
View Article/u/intergalacticlov on I think I was kicked off the bridal party for refusing...
This is why I find the wedding industry to be ridiculous and why I don’t take weddings seriously. It sometimes causes people to turn on each other and brings out the worst in people. I’m sorry you had...
View Article/u/Afterraincomesthesun on I think I was kicked off the bridal party for...
I would turn up looking stunning as you are to the wedding. Get in all the photos also! Hell maybe even do a speech detailing your friendship and ending with reading the above! Maybe a little harsh but...
View Article/u/HerdingTabbyCats on I think I was kicked off the bridal party for refusing...
I hope the bride’s fiance realises what a selfish, shallow, unfeeling person his intended is...and HE CANCELS THE WEDDING. I feel sorry for anyone who marries that selfish twat. I pray he realises what...
View Article/u/curiousarcher on I think I was kicked off the bridal party for refusing to...
Over 10 years ago I had cancer and I would’ve been mortified for my good friend not to be proud of me inside and out, and allow me to be completely comfortable in my own skin. When you said you felt...
View Article/u/Hellarrow on I think I was kicked off the bridal party for refusing to...
Think you mean wouldn’t?
View Article/u/books-and-whiskey on I think I was kicked off the bridal party for...
One lady had 34 bridesmaids at her wedding, there is definitely no limit.https://www.cnn.com/2019/06/25/us/34-bridesmaids-trnd/index.html
View Article/u/PantsPartyParakeet on I think I was kicked off the bridal party for...
Well said. I definitely thought 12 was pretty excessive
View Article/u/MayorScotch on I think I was kicked off the bridal party for refusing to...
If everyone is a groomsman then no one is a groomsman.
View Article/u/Honeybeeezzzz on I think I was kicked off the bridal party for refusing to...
That’s so sweet of you to say, thank you!!
View Article/u/Aunty-Sociale on I think I was kicked off the bridal party for refusing to...
Seriously, I know I’m late to the dogpile, but still fuck her. My god how heartless and selfish can you be?
View Article/u/Trippytrickster on I think I was kicked off the bridal party for refusing...
This! I hadn't even thought of that and it doesn't seem to be getting discussed. I can only imagine what kind of financial burden being bridesmaid put on OP with medical bills hanging over her head....
View Article/u/thedogsfoot on I think I was kicked off the bridal party for refusing to...
Totally agree. How to deal with hair loss after chemo is a very personal decision. I just went bald, I had a wig but it was scratchy and hot and I didn’t feel comfortable in it. A true friend wouldn’t...
View Article/u/OOOtOOOt on I think I was kicked off the bridal party for refusing to wear...
I agree with you: I don't believe Karen should have taken OP to the wig shop at all, given OP's history, etc.I was really trying to point out that Karen violated OP's boundaries by her thoughtless...
View Article/u/PsychoCelloChica on I think I was kicked off the bridal party for refusing...
I'm late to the party here, but just found your post through The Mighty.I think your friend went about everything in totally the wrong way, but I want to encourage you to have a conversation with her...
View Article/u/Lupine_Outcast on I think I was kicked off the bridal party for refusing...
Fuck her special day! This is incredibly selfish and cruel of her, and she does NOT deserve your friendship Treat yourself to something you enjoy, and enjoy knowing the trash took itself out
View Article/u/Cupid873 on I think I was kicked off the bridal party for refusing to wear...
I think Karen has already ruined your friendship op, I just have no words for how disgusting this is. By ignoring your phone calls and the other bridal party refusing to say too, it's pretty obvious...
View Article/u/Silentstrm123 on I think I was kicked off the bridal party for refusing to...
Thank you. We still miss our Grandpas even though it's been five years of marriage ☺.
View Article/u/bst722 on I think I was kicked off the bridal party for refusing to wear a...
Especially since she's a nurse and knows better than most what OP is going through! When you have friends like this who needs enemies? OP I'm sure it won't be easy, but you should absolutely skip the...
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